Do We Relate Each Other?
I write this because of my personal experiences.
Some people said: they wanted to talk or discuss about problem that we faced of.
I often found this in a ‘discussion’. What people think about discussion is defending their opinions and making other accept it. Sometimes it meant how to make other understand what I think, but rarely try to understand other.
What I thoughts about a discussion are:
- You are ready to accept when your idea or opinion is wrong
- You are ready to accept when other idea is right
- You are ready to hear your discussion partner’s opinions
- You are ready to accept when a decision not as you predicted before
These things are really important in our life. Your discussion skill will determine if you can make a relation with other.
What I mean about ‘accept’ is: You sincerely accept what other says without exception, without condition as a trade. Accept with all of your heart period.
Now, let see our relationship with others. Have we EVER accept what others (that we thought have relation with) said to us?
If that was never happen, I think we have no relationship with other(s).
I live in my lonely world by myself…
Tags: accept, discussion, relate, relationship